That's actually a pretty cool way to look at life. A lot of the things that seem "impossible" in the moment only look impossible because we can't see the years of small decisions that eventually lead there.
Your story about joking about a vasectomy, then getting it done for free years later, and especially going from renting to owning your dream home, is a reminder that life can surprise us in ways we never expect.
I've noticed something similar myself: whenever I stop obsessing over the outcome and focus on doing the right things consistently, opportunities seem to appear out of nowhere. Not always in the way I imagined, but often better than expected.
As for the $1,000,000 dream — who knows? Fifteen years ago owning your dream house probably sounded just as unlikely.
Wishing you and your family good health, happiness, and maybe a little Stake luck along the way 🍀🥰