Red Flags in Dating

[Jelisaveta]

16 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

As @JovanGa said, just be down to earth, be natural, but i would add that she needs to be a bit crazy 

but can you deal with crazy tho ?  🤔

[MladenTm]

1 minute ago, Jelisaveta said:

but can you deal with crazy tho ?  🤔

The better question is can the crazy deal with me? 😂
Depends of how much crazy we are talking about haha But on a scale from 1-10, i can deal with 7 probably, maybe 8 😁🤣

[Jelisaveta]

5 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

The better question is can the crazy deal with me? 😂
Depends of how much crazy we are talking about haha But on a scale from 1-10, i can deal with 7 probably, maybe 8 😁🤣

nice! sometimes the scale is 1-10 but the crazy is 15 😂

[MladenTm]

Just now, Jelisaveta said:

nice! sometimes the scale is 1-10 but the crazy is 15 😂

Ummm yeah, you are right. So remember, when you encounter the 15, just run, as fast as you can 🤣

[Jelisaveta]

2 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

Ummm yeah, you are right. So remember, when you encounter the 15, just run, as fast as you can 🤣

my thoughts exactly 😄

[Mae1]

I don't remember anymore 😂👍 @Jelisaveta haha ,my ex bf for 6 years  was a MD he proposed to me but I declined coz I'm not ready yet ,  he was happily married now, so it's okey ,I'm more happy being single ..

Red flags might be jealousy , being obsessed and when a person has no time for you ..

[Jelisaveta]

6 hours ago, Mae1 said:

I don't remember anymore 😂👍 @Jelisaveta haha ,my ex bf for 6 years  was a MD he proposed to me but I declined coz I'm not ready yet ,  he was happily married now, so it's okey ,I'm more happy being single ..

Red flags might be jealousy , being obsessed and when a person has no time for you ..

it's totally normal if you are happier on your own than with sb 😄

i agree completely with all the red flags you have mentioned ! 💖

[Zamia2001]

saying "i love you" at first date ...omg🤣😂🤣

[MladenTm]

3 minutes ago, Zamia2001 said:

saying "i love you" at first date ...omg🤣😂🤣

Does that really happen? 🤣🤣🤣

[Zamia2001]

2 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

Does that really happen? 🤣🤣🤣

i said it coz it happened and i felt turned off 😂😂

[MladenTm]

4 minutes ago, Zamia2001 said:

i said it coz it happened and i felt turned off 😂😂

I would reply with "worship me now" and slap that one with a whip 🤣🤣

[LordH0lyBanana]

When she has a dick. 2022 we never know what people hide nowaday. also Pansexual, I would never trust someone having sex with pan.

[FRNBoyZ]

a girl with a bunch of guy best friends is a big No

always in your phone jealous or accusing / paranoid 

needs to be laid back go with the flow be one with Nature and always look up to the stars 

know that money means everything but at the same time means nothing and never lets that get in the way of things

be understanding and caring of feelings 

loyalty no matter the situation 

always backs you up emotionally 

stick it out through the good and bad times it makes you stronger

never let family or friends get in the way of love

(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧

[Jelisaveta]

1 minute ago, FRNBoyZ said:

a girl with a bunch of guy best friends is a big No

always in your phone jealous or accusing / paranoid 

needs to be laid back go with the flow be one with Nature and always look up to the stars 

know that money means everything but at the same time means nothing and never lets that get in the way of things

be understanding and caring of feelings 

loyalty no matter the situation 

always backs you up emotionally 

stick it out through the good and bad times it makes you stronger

never let family or friends get in the way of love

(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧

i love each of these sooooo much 💖💖💖

[StealthFax]

When they tell me their RTP is less than 95%, sorry, it’s over.

[Zamia2001]

15 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

I would reply with "worship me now" and slap that one with a whip 🤣🤣

is that what you can advice me?  can you give some  guidance  before i go to serious relationship? havent say "yes" yet. 🤣🤣

[MladenTm]

9 minutes ago, Zamia2001 said:

is that what you can advice me?  can you give some  guidance  before i go to serious relationship? havent say "yes" yet. 🤣🤣

I haven't been in a serious relationship for 5 or 6 years now, so i can't help you with that, i don't trust people in relationships 😂 The only advice i can give you is to be with someone that loves you more than you love him, he will always take care of you 😂😁

[Zamia2001]

18 hours ago, MladenTm said:

I haven't been in a serious relationship for 5 or 6 years now, so i can't help you with that, i don't trust people in relationships 😂 The only advice i can give you is to be with someone that loves you more than you love him, he will always take care of you 😂😁

be with someone that loves you more than you love him.he will always takecare of you... yup i always with him he provides everything i needed(God)💓🙏

[ubbey04]

Hmmm .. Interesting topic 🤔 

Red flags...

Well someone that is too pretentious and much confidence to himself.  I love hanging out with someone who is true no hesitations but have respect . Dating is a stage of getting to know each other no strings attach unless you give him chances .

With regards to relationship,  if he has no "clear plans about his future " , how he manage his finances  ,how he treats his own family .. how he trust me .. those factors I used to consider .. he don't  need to be wealthy but with sense of responsibility. 

Relationship isn't based only with love.. Love can't live without trust  and acceptance.  Its a two way process. 

[Joepinoy]

I think when your partner doesn`t appreciate small things you did for them, i think that`s a red flag. also when your partner doesn`t give a f about your day, never ask how your day went. also a partner without a plan in the future with you is a massive red flag.

PS. i am virgin, never been in a relationship since birth. 

[ubbey04]

5 minutes ago, Joepinoy said:

I think when your partner doesn`t appreciate small things you did for them, i think that`s a red flag. also when your partner doesn`t give a f about your day, never ask how your day went. also a partner without a plan in the future with you is a massive red flag.

PS. i am virgin, never been in a relationship since birth. 

Oh g my baby bro... 😳😳

On 3/23/2022 at 7:51 PM, Ghostnipple said:

Shoes and bag dont match... run fast.

 

Haha lmao you mean no sense of fashion ? Or cheap taste ? 🤣🤣

[MladenTm]

2 hours ago, ubbey04 said:

Hmmm .. Interesting topic 🤔 

Red flags...

Well someone that is too pretentious and much confidence to himself.  I love hanging out with someone who is true no hesitations but have respect . Dating is a stage of getting to know each other no strings attach unless you give him chances .

With regards to relationship,  if he has no "clear plans about his future " , how he manage his finances  ,how he treats his own family .. how he trust me .. those factors I used to consider .. he don't  need to be wealthy but with sense of responsibility. 

Relationship isn't based only with love.. Love can't live without trust  and acceptance.  Its a two way process. 

I get where you are getting at, i really do, but i need more explanation on how it's better to have an insecure little boy by your side and not a confident man with whom you don't need to worry about all those things you mentioned. A insecure boy will make you feel less worthy, probably cheat, you can't trust him and he will probably just lower your confidence so he can feel better about himself. A confident man will never do that, he knows what he wants, know about his future, know that he wants you by his side and will boost your confidence and support you all the way. 
I can understand your answer only if , by confident, you meant over confident and those who are in love with themselves.
With the rest of what you said i agree but i have to add something. Relationship shouldn't be based on love, but on loyalty and respect primarily.

[ubbey04]

20 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

I get where you are getting at, i really do, but i need more explanation on how it's better to have an insecure little boy by your side and not a confident man with whom you don't need to worry about all those things you mentioned. A insecure boy will make you feel less worthy, probably cheat, you can't trust him and he will probably just lower your confidence so he can feel better about himself. A confident man will never do that, he knows what he wants, know about his future, know that he wants you by his side and will boost your confidence and support you all the way. 
I can understand your answer only if , by confident, you meant over confident and those who are in love with themselves.
With the rest of what you said i agree but i have to add something. Relationship shouldn't be based on love, but on loyalty and respect primarily.

I think we have language barrier here... what i meant for a man "being pretentious " projecting good image infront of you not showing whats inside him .. "dating " for me is like creating "rapport " a good mutual feelings that both can freely express the emotions,  views , etc .. not just keeping that "  fake impression"  bec it only leads to disappointment. I'm a simple but frank person not into fancy or material things more on practical ways . I can tell directly to the person if I like him or not .

Too much  confidence of himself is like .. I am these .. I have these , I can do these etc or bragging simultaneously even noone is asking. Thats so boring .

47 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

I get where you are getting at, i really do, but i need more explanation on how it's better to have an insecure little boy by your side and not a confident man with whom you don't need to worry about all those things you mentioned. A insecure boy will make you feel less worthy, probably cheat, you can't trust him and he will probably just lower your confidence so he can feel better about himself. A confident man will never do that, he knows what he wants, know about his future, know that he wants you by his side and will boost your confidence and support you all the way. 
I can understand your answer only if , by confident, you meant over confident and those who are in love with themselves.
With the rest of what you said i agree but i have to add something. Relationship shouldn't be based on love, but on loyalty and respect primarily.

If you're referring to  "already in a relationship " . For me open communication is the key .. hearing both sides , if you love a man .. you should understand him .. accept his weakness not only his strength . Learn how to listen not just speaking your mind ..  Insecurity in a relationship only comes if  lack of support .. as I've said .. its a team work to make any relationship work . Its a commitment.. 

[MladenTm]

1 minute ago, ubbey04 said:

I think we have language barrier here... what i meant for a man "being pretentious " projecting good image infront of you not showing whats inside him .. "dating " for me is like creating "rapport " a good mutual feelings that both can freely express the emotions,  views , etc .. not just keeping that "  fake impression"  bec it only leads to disappointment. I'm a simple but frank person not into fancy or material things more on practical ways . I can tell directly to the person if I like him or not .

Too much  confidence of himself is like .. I am these .. I have these , I can do these etc or bragging simultaneously even noone is asking. Thats so boring .

Then  it's my bad, there is a language barrier there.
You're right, nobody wants a showoff, they just show all they have so people will like them, that just screams "insecure and desperate". Okay you have all that, but who are you when you get alone with a person who doesn't need your fancy car, but need a comfort words when life hits hard. They just end up being an empty shell. 
Then you are a real one, hope you find someone like that, and don't settle for less.

[ubbey04]

4 minutes ago, MladenTm said:

Then  it's my bad, there is a language barrier there.
You're right, nobody wants a showoff, they just show all they have so people will like them, that just screams "insecure and desperate". Okay you have all that, but who are you when you get alone with a person who doesn't need your fancy car, but need a comfort words when life hits hard. They just end up being an empty shell. 
Then you are a real one, hope you find someone like that, and don't settle for less.

If God will send me one .. he will come in any means.. I won't find him .. he will find me 😊