A public apology to LuckyCharmer

[BLXN]

I would like to set things aright. For me; for Jess; for everyone. I started a witch hunt a couple months back accusing @luckycharmer408 of being a scammer- many rude exchanges have since transpired, and the animosity has become too much to bear. We began as friends, and we had trust-- in my defense, I was {desperately} needing the money returned at the time, and .. well, I have a little temper problem-- I could use a bit of temperance from my temper, you could say. :X I do not enjoy publicly blasting people, and it is my regret that I allowed my temper to control my expectations, and behaviour; as many other people jumped on board, and she was quickly outnumbered, and the feud has since expanded-- I'd like for everyone to be aware that I have forgiven Jess, and would also ask for her forgiveness in return. It is a shame to see money coming between people constantly- we are here for fun, and to make friends; and enjoy life, and I feel that we take this game too seriously too often.  we ought to treat each other fairly, and with respect, and crude words, or threats, or names should not replace meaningful conversation, or compassion.

 

regards,

the blxn

[DviouS]

Hats off for this one. Takes a big person to admit their faults, and to do it for the entire community to see it...  solid by me 👌

[KiXxnTRiXx]

.. yes good for you bro .. good that you are now able to move on .. holding onto so much animosity and anger thats is supposed to be directed at another person, that we forget all that harms us more than whatever result it may come from it.. not saying that what you felt was not validated or that is "bad".. that is in our nature to have those type of emotions and making choses. driven by our feelings.. we are human and we have been and still being conditioned to have these reactions..

Forgive (for your own sake) , but do not forget.. keep mindful of it.. whether you decide to move on or reconsile, that from this moment going forward, whatever transpires between the both of you.. now aware of this possible outcome..

Good luck

 

 

[bmg]

1 hour ago, DviouS said:

Hats off for this one. Takes a big person to admit their faults, and to do it for the entire community to see it...  solid by me 👌

i agree with you . totally solid

[barbaris]

Well, when a person knows how to admit mistakes, it makes him better in the eyes of others.

[Furlicious]

Nice! You have just earned my respect as well. We should always cherish all of our friends and be there for another in bad or good times. There are billions of people around as and its fate that brought us all together.. everything happens for a reason. 

[artizykristy]

I think you think too far in gambling that you are not looking for pleasure in gambling. but well, hopefully he forgives you and you can become good friends again.

[lupandina]

Sadly, I can't tell same. (yea, everyone can now start trow rocks at me 😂) 

I don't care about money she stole from me. I even still was ok to talk, when I found out, how creatively I was fooled. But I didn't hear any explanation, or "sorry", or smth. Otherwise. 

A lot of people did smth similar for me, and I'm not keeping any angry at all. But no one dare to talk with me like this. I didn't deserve that, and won't let this happen. 

That's it. Let's move on. 

[77kdub]

I try to distance myself from all the drama & b.s. that sometimes happens here.  I personally never had a problem with Jess but then again I would never loan that amount of money out to anyone for gambling or put myself in that situation.  I'm glad that you can come forward and apologize publicly and admit your wrongs that is admirable.  I am curious though,  did this apology come after she she payed her debt.  I see this happen a lot,  someone borrows for gambling and then isn't able to pay back on time.  The next thing you know the lender is throwing out scammer accusations publicly because they didn't plan on the fact that they may not get there payment back in the time frame they were expecting.  That never helps the situation nor does it get your money back any sooner if anything it just makes it worse.  In any case I hope you learned something from this and hopefully will think twice next time.

[BLXN]

On 4/11/2019 at 2:43 PM, 77kdub said:

I try to distance myself from all the drama & b.s. that sometimes happens here.  I personally never had a problem with Jess but then again I would never loan that amount of money out to anyone for gambling or put myself in that situation.  I'm glad that you can come forward and apologize publicly and admit your wrongs that is admirable.  I am curious though,  did this apology come after she she payed her debt.  I see this happen a lot,  someone borrows for gambling and then isn't able to pay back on time.  The next thing you know the lender is throwing out scammer accusations publicly because they didn't plan on the fact that they may not get there payment back in the time frame they were expecting.  That never helps the situation nor does it get your money back any sooner if anything it just makes it worse.  In any case I hope you learned something from this and hopefully will think twice next time.

I haven't received anything, no. I'll take a grudge too far, and it competes with my compassion for people-- as I am in competition with them as well more often than not, and this world is god eat god, feel me? lol. I think money is really just a figment of imagination, and because of its lack of true value it corrupts our nature increasingly if not made to be in check through mindful action.