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Staying calm after a loss


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We have all been there. One minute, we hit an insane green streak and the next we just have so many losses in a row. It is gambling for you and we all have experienced it before. 

If I do lose, the first thing that I do is go to a YouTube video and grab myself a drink. It just calms me down and takes my mind of the loss that just happened. 

Do you guys have any techniques or ways to keep you calm after you lose money? If so, what do you do? :) 

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I can't control myself if I experience a big defeat ... emotions always win from calm ..
facing a tense situation when accepting defeat is to take a walk out of the house just leaving the bet without pressing any buttons on my laptop ...

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I do probably what you do and as a result of that I'm pretty caln after an hour or two, then I can peacefully live my life again without thinking about the losses.

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15 hours ago, SLFJ said:

I do probably what you do and as a result of that I'm pretty caln after an hour or two, then I can peacefully live my life again without thinking about the losses.

I just feel like watching a movie with a blank stare ... because even if the film is exciting or tense, still my mind is still in gambling with the defeat that just happened ... by watching the film I will not be able to calm down

  • 3 weeks later...
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if I lose, I go to the forum to comment, and the sats that I get on the forum to continue my game is stopped because of the long red, if I still lose, then I log out from the site, and I will go out for a walk forget my defeat

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Its hard to relax after I lose, because Im thinking about it many times, were i've made mistake and I should choose different game or strategy, its hard to forget that moment. Still calm but disappointed of what ive done. But as time pass and keeping myself busy, it helps me to forget my loses step by step.

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Hello there,

I'm very disappointed in myself after a huge lose , i always lose when im nearing the minimum withdrawal that i save for many days , when this happens i go out to the balcony open youtube and look for a relaxing music that calms me like raindrops of water with piano or sound of a river. It calms me but the regret wil ltake a few hours before i can be my normal self again .

  • 2 weeks later...
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well i used to not even get mad or happy when i was losing or winning 
like i could win 5k for a sec and be like ok
or i could lose same amount and be like ok 
without any emotion 
but ever sense i came in stake i can get mad over losing 5$ xD 
rly cool :D 
cuz i also can get happy after winning something like 5$
and i used to bet more then that 
so i am cool with being mad after loss 
cuz i am being happy after winning as well
cant rly explain it but yeah in a way it is better not staying clam after a loss for some people :D 

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I usually lose first when I stop and while talking in the chat room while brewing coffee and it makes me calm down and forget about losing before, when it's calm I return to deposit and return to play while accompanied by a bottle of mineral water

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On 10/18/2019 at 7:05 PM, j240 said:

Hello there,

I'm very disappointed in myself after a huge lose , i always lose when im nearing the minimum withdrawal that i save for many days , when this happens i go out to the balcony open youtube and look for a relaxing music that calms me like raindrops of water with piano or sound of a river. It calms me but the regret wil ltake a few hours before i can be my normal self again .

most people will experience this, losing before the number of numbers on their balance is close to a minimum withdrawal. and I often experience it, but even so, I still passed with a smile and think that the money has not become my fortune. maybe tomorrow or the next few days.

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It is quite difficult not to say harsh words when we experience defeat in the game, but sometimes I am alone and stay quiet for a while while drinking and smoking to calm down.

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When I lose I try to repeat to myself what someone smart here on the forum said once. That If we lose all our balance, doesn't matter how big. We shouldn't worry that much because if we were able to reach that balance before then for sure in the future we will be able to repeat this and get that balance back. The most important thing for me is not to chase loses after I totally busted I began from small amounts again and don't try to get fast to that balance I lost.

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On 10/30/2019 at 4:38 PM, Mahdirakib87 said:

After losing much I try to stay calm by listening to music or funny videos on YouTube. In past I was showing rage at chat. But now I made myself comfortable with loss. It's a part of gambling. 

Ohh this is good I think if you lose then you buzy with other work I also do same after losing I open YouTube and play some funny movie or some funny shows this thing relx me and change my mod very quickly

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Gamblers don´t like to lose, and I am not the exception, so I am a very careful whit my bet amounts in order to keep my balance big enough to keep me gambling larger time.  But then comes those many reds in a row which are my true headache and when I can´t stop rolling and got that big loss then I just go to a mirror, look to my self and blame my lack of maturity.  Greed is a very hard attitude to beat.  Talk to myself and blame to myself.  My opinion.  Good luck.  

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sometimes i also do that (watching youtube or games) but sometimes it still makes the heart uncomfortable when it's lost, especially if it's big but I will continue to try to let go if it's already lost.

Maybe that's best choice

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