iamsheikhadil Posted September 28, 2019 #1 Posted September 28, 2019 I have seen many people saying this that they will never trust a gambler with their money. If they had a friend who they know is a gambler, they wouldn't trust them with their money or other stuffs. But ironically, these same people are gamblers as well. So why do these people not trust their friends while they themselves trust themselves? Isn't this hypocrisy?
SLFJ Posted September 28, 2019 #2 Posted September 28, 2019 I don't even trust myself tbh, 1 moment i'm like, I hate gambling, the next moment i'm on stake myself, so yeah, I trust my friends though, they aren't like me, they have stronger will and I need to find that somewhere.
zulfandina Posted September 28, 2019 #3 Posted September 28, 2019 in my opinion it is not only hypocrisy but also arrogance ... believes in oneself but instead does not believe in others who are in the profession ... feels that what others have is not right, not good, while what they have is the same thing that the other person has, and is obtained in the same way
wngo123 Posted September 28, 2019 #4 Posted September 28, 2019 Quote So why do these people not trust their friends while they themselves trust themselves? Isn't this hypocrisy? Nobody says we do trust ourselves. I struggle every time with myself when it comes to deposit for example. Should I deposit or not? One part of me says sure do it , everything will be great and you going to win big, but my other part is telling me that i shouldn't do that because I will bust all of it
Xarv Posted September 29, 2019 #5 Posted September 29, 2019 For me it's the other way around, I dont trust myself so I do not trust gamblers or anybody else actually. It could be just that we project our fears onto other people... If I was to lend money to a friend, I would rather just give it to him/her if I can afford it.
kavabangich Posted September 29, 2019 #6 Posted September 29, 2019 When you lose money yourself, then you will not blame anyone, but if a friend loses, a quarrel may arise
iamsheikhadil Posted September 29, 2019 Author #7 Posted September 29, 2019 11 hours ago, zulfandina said: in my opinion it is not only hypocrisy but also arrogance ... believes in oneself but instead does not believe in others who are in the profession ... feels that what others have is not right, not good, while what they have is the same thing that the other person has, and is obtained in the same way It's so true. And they are the ones who are left with no helpers when they need help. It feels good to be isolated because they are here in majority many a times.
sheenazbay Posted October 13, 2019 #8 Posted October 13, 2019 they say they don't trust to lend their money to fellow gamblers. so it's better to play alone, without lending it. it is not hypocrisy, money alone is used for gambling, without anyone playing it or lending to others
johnpogi Posted October 13, 2019 #9 Posted October 13, 2019 Real thing is, its really hard to trust others about money matter, scam is everywhere and in stake it is easy for them to borrow and run, dont trust a stranger thats always said since i was a child. I dont borrow my coins on gambling so im confident, and if somebody wants to borrow coin from me or pmbeg im just ignoring it, i always do that so they dont have responsiblity in me and of course I dont have an headache if i take those. Its a friendly thing to help others, but sometimes their are some that has different itentions and must be aware of that.
firewolf7876 Posted October 13, 2019 #10 Posted October 13, 2019 Well, its more about them taking your money, and you atleast will have fun with the money, bet it, and giving it to other, you wont have fun, lol and there are a lot of people scamming... so yeah, and well some maybe just for addiction, some arent, and have strong will, but its still better not to trust them , maybe a bit, but not too much. or just people. specialy people in internet. (not only gamblers)
tae40127 Posted October 13, 2019 #11 Posted October 13, 2019 it the reason for who love to play and a lot of hope but the truth no one can beat the author site
Aiza824 Posted October 13, 2019 #12 Posted October 13, 2019 It is actually the inverse. If you cannot trust yourself as you bet (or even in any other things outside this gambling matter) why would you even trust a gambler? A gambler, in the first place, is already doing wrong. If you cannot trust yourself and you are aware that it is wrong for you, why would you even trust a person that's already doing wrong?
nikowin88 Posted October 13, 2019 #13 Posted October 13, 2019 Its notre hypocrisie its common sens. Why nit trusting Gambler with ourdou money. Because we are Gamblers Oursel ves and for that reason perfectly know we have a concern with and are able to bust very large amount for the tiny hope of winning even more. Which in most cases never happen. It's like when your a father and have a daughter which is my case. In that case you will teach your daughter not to believe a single word that a man can tell her and learn her to be very sceptical with man. Why that? Because being a man yourself you know that most of man who do anything and swear anything just to have a chance to bring the woman they want to their own bed... It's sad and not all the man are like that but most of them are and I have 0 problem into not trusting man concerning their honesty about woman. I have many friend and more than the half of them wouldn't see any moral concern to cheat with their wifes... And even some of those who find it immoral have yet did it once... Man aren't trustworthy when it comes to having sex. Gambler aren't trustworthy when it comes to money that's all.
iamsheikhadil Posted October 13, 2019 Author #14 Posted October 13, 2019 36 minutes ago, Aiza824 said: It is actually the inverse. If you cannot trust yourself as you bet (or even in any other things outside this gambling matter) why would you even trust a gambler? A gambler, in the first place, is already doing wrong. If you cannot trust yourself and you are aware that it is wrong for you, why would you even trust a person that's already doing wrong? Still many people say it proudly how they will never trust a gambler. Especially after they quit gambling for a while and the withdrawal symptoms shows when they get an ego that they are better than gamblers. Then they come back to gambling
zulfandina Posted October 13, 2019 #15 Posted October 13, 2019 38 minutes ago, Aiza824 said: It is actually the inverse. If you cannot trust yourself as you bet (or even in any other things outside this gambling matter) why would you even trust a gambler? A gambler, in the first place, is already doing wrong. If you cannot trust yourself and you are aware that it is wrong for you, why would you even trust a person that's already doing wrong? I don't think so, a gambler doesn't necessarily make mistakes, and that trust cannot be made but is born from a clean and pure heart. if self-confidence decreases and confidence in bets is lost, a gambler might even trust other gamblers more than himself but there is still a process for that
barbaris Posted October 16, 2019 #16 Posted October 16, 2019 Who, if not yourself, can be trusted. After all, you yourself will not deceive yourself and will only do better for yourself. Unless of course you are an independent player and you are not in control of yourself.
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