adamrivera Posted June 5, 2021 #52 Posted June 5, 2021 Only gamble with money you are willing to lose.
randomguy2 Posted June 5, 2021 Author #53 Posted June 5, 2021 46 minutes ago, julietherium said: My dear, I'm very sorry to hear that. Let me just tell you my story. I wasn't in a very good place emotionally but had some money after I finally got to sell a very tiny apartment I used to own. I had just moved in with my girlfriend but had lost my mom 2 months before, I was a mess. I was already under professional guidance since my girlfriend have bipolar disorder and talked me into seeking professional care. Eventually I was diagnosed with OCT and bipolar disorder as well. But that didn't stop me from gambling. I had a very open relationship with my psychiatrist and every session he would talk to me about anonymous gambling groups. I would listen carefully but didn't think it was for me. I had set a 20-30% limit that I would afford to lose before considering I had a real gambling problem. It eventually happened and thankfully I was able to admit defeat and attend to those groups and start therapy with a psychologist as well. I finally understood I had more of a disease than a mere "gambling problem", a disease that would eventually take money from me but not only that, it could also destroy my life along with everything I loved so much, my girlfriend, our cats, my lovely brother. It wasn't until I understood that it was never about the money that I had lost but all the money I would prevent myself from losing by seeking help that I could finally stop. So, my advice to you is not to look at what all this shit has taken from you. Accept that. It's like you had a disease that took a leg from you. You won't have that back. You could put your other leg on the line to get a new one but in the first place it was exactly what took your leg from you. So you might lose both. Do you love your leg? So why would you risk losing it? You can work, invest, and buy a new prosthetic leg, so just focus on this. Thankfully, money is money, it's not irreplaceable like a natural leg. But keep in mind one thing, gambling does not only take money from you, it also take irreplaceable things. So, my advice is: look forward. Seek help, talk about this with others. I'm sure you have so much you love in your life. Live for all those things. I'm sorry to hear that. And thanks for letting me know. I am currently actively seeking for help and trying to start a new. Hopefully everything is good on your behalf now?
hotbad89 Posted June 5, 2021 #54 Posted June 5, 2021 I'm very sorry to hear that. its not the way to make money like your salary tbh. gambling aware
julietherium Posted June 5, 2021 #55 Posted June 5, 2021 21 minutes ago, randomguy2 said: I'm sorry to hear that. And thanks for letting me know. I am currently actively seeking for help and trying to start a new. Hopefully everything is good on your behalf now? I had a relapse during the pandemic after 2 years of sobriety. Trying to work my way out. Extremely hard.
bitblogger Posted June 5, 2021 #56 Posted June 5, 2021 Only thing u can do is start over and start from the beginning with ur savings. Remember this feeling you have right now as it will keep you from making the same mistake, maybe.
iulianbutanu Posted June 5, 2021 #57 Posted June 5, 2021 Lol make new savings.. it aint the end of the world, the same couldve happen if you wouldve invest in a bad business.
Takadhun Posted June 5, 2021 #59 Posted June 5, 2021 Lol. Clever way of saying “ i need some funds “ someone send him some.. 😂😂😂
Guest Faruk365 Posted June 6, 2021 #60 Posted June 6, 2021 Hellow bro same here I am in lots of loans now its better to end gaming. Or else things will get even worse.
randomguy2 Posted June 6, 2021 Author #62 Posted June 6, 2021 14 hours ago, julietherium said: I had a relapse during the pandemic after 2 years of sobriety. Trying to work my way out. Extremely hard. Hope things get better for all of us. 10 hours ago, Takadhun said: Lol. Clever way of saying “ i need some funds “ someone send him some.. 😂😂😂 You might think this is a joke. Can't blame you for thinking that way though. While some might think this is a joke. It's actually not. I admit I did a terrible mistake and it cost me everything. Savings, funds for my sick mom (I hate to sound so depressing and trying to include family issues in this, but some think this is a joke. Which is not). Again I know it's my mistake and I did not beg for your money doing this.
fossyfan Posted June 6, 2021 #63 Posted June 6, 2021 Seriously advice you to message stake and all other crypto casinos and normal casinos wherrever you gamble and get yourself banned for life I know it's a hard decision but If you have never been up on profits in the last 6 months , you can not hope to get profitable in the next 6 and at the rate you spend due to addition it will put you in further debt, stake has responsible gambling so has all other casinos and sportsbook just tell them to ban you for life. Wheni talk about profits it can actually only be done on sports for which you need to build up lot of stats and knowledge just like stockmarket so you have thought I meanst casino games than no you cannot , only exception luck 1% have netdeposits in profit over a long term but most of The time they gamble that away too so just do not continue aslo get emotional support from gambling addicts support groups online. Forget you can ever recover your fundsyou won't - this advice comes from a guy with 9 years of sportbetting experience I have seen it all ppl losing it all , and I have seen ppl who recovred after banning themselves and starting to save again and putting life back on track. Good luck pls dm stake support asap
Zamia2001 Posted June 6, 2021 #64 Posted June 6, 2021 exactly what fossyfan is trying to tell you @randomguy2if you read his message its an ultimate desicion you should do..dont beg for advice for you to continue playing and losing more money. the best way is STOP follow advice from other players..my hope you will change the direction of your life to the right path..God guides you❤️
GHAELRAVEN Posted June 6, 2021 #65 Posted June 6, 2021 Its not yet the end... Try to learn on it.. ok cheer up..
randomguy2 Posted June 6, 2021 Author #66 Posted June 6, 2021 5 hours ago, fossyfan said: Seriously advice you to message stake and all other crypto casinos and normal casinos wherrever you gamble and get yourself banned for life I know it's a hard decision but If you have never been up on profits in the last 6 months , you can not hope to get profitable in the next 6 and at the rate you spend due to addition it will put you in further debt, stake has responsible gambling so has all other casinos and sportsbook just tell them to ban you for life. Wheni talk about profits it can actually only be done on sports for which you need to build up lot of stats and knowledge just like stockmarket so you have thought I meanst casino games than no you cannot , only exception luck 1% have netdeposits in profit over a long term but most of The time they gamble that away too so just do not continue aslo get emotional support from gambling addicts support groups online. Forget you can ever recover your fundsyou won't - this advice comes from a guy with 9 years of sportbetting experience I have seen it all ppl losing it all , and I have seen ppl who recovred after banning themselves and starting to save again and putting life back on track. Good luck pls dm stake support asap It's actually easier said than done. but, I will try. I messed up my life in just a couple of hours. Like seriously, $20k down the drain in just few minutes. Fuck my life. I wish I didn't deposit all on that day and gamble like I'm not myself. I messed up. Have to move on is what people said and I realize it is the right thing to do. But I just can't. Again just let me vent all my trouble here, I am not asking you guys to send me fund or anything. I just need a place to explain how worthless I am. How am I supposed to tell my family that the fund I have saved for my future and my mom's medical bills gone. In less than a day. Over a year. On gambling? They'll kill me.
SUNNYSKY Posted June 6, 2021 #67 Posted June 6, 2021 same , but keep wagering until you can withdraw again
randomguy2 Posted June 6, 2021 Author #68 Posted June 6, 2021 1 hour ago, SUNNYSKY said: same , but keep wagering until you can withdraw again No sir. I believe I have gambling issues and it affects my mental health. It also affect the people I cared about. If I lose anymore this I might actually just end myself.
SlasherCup Posted June 18, 2021 #69 Posted June 18, 2021 Don't gamble to much. Play what you can afford to lose.
boonboonboii Posted June 18, 2021 #70 Posted June 18, 2021 I think what you need to do right now is to take time off and let time do the healing. Don't place anymore bets ever again.
Au3tii Posted June 19, 2021 #71 Posted June 19, 2021 On 6/5/2021 at 6:52 PM, path78 said: stop gambling man gambling is for fun not for source of income. Facts
Shadezin Posted August 8, 2021 #75 Posted August 8, 2021 You might need professional help, buddy. Hope you get through it well.
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