Kargai Posted March 23, 2018 #1 Posted March 23, 2018 We are humans. Our only limitations are the ones we set up in our own minds. We are always just one decision away from a totally different life. Every of our decision counts, even the smaller ones. Make your decision counts. Every decision, every action, every choice counts. Every choice that is made in your present moment has an impact in your future. It's one of the most important principle you can live by. "I follow perfectly my diet since 10 days, this single donuts will not be that bad". It is. "I didn't smoke the last 5 days, i can afford to smoke that one". No you can't. "I exercice every day since I decided to flip my health, i can rest the next week". Nope. Why ? Because every little decision who go against your new way of life is an opportunity for the old one to take you back where you were before. To take you back in a life you didn't like that much at the first place. An easy life where you just let things flow, reacting to events instead of moving towards them. Every time you decide to work on yourself instead of choosing the easy road that is a STRONGER you in the future. That could mean you'll have to spend hours of working on yourself instead of going outside and partying to forget your actual life, that you'll have to skip an invitation to eat crappy food with your friends to eat healthy on your own, that you'll have to fight unhealthy habits like drugs, alcohol, smoke, sugar & co and replace them by better ones on the long run that you'll can watch the latest TV show/movie, reading gossips, following the last trend or fashion, etc. because you'll be too interested in discovering yourself instead of watching others When you decide to develop your mind by learning something new rather than watching the news that is a STRONGER & BETTER you in the future. When you decide to eat healthy rather than give in to temptation or feed your body with foods that only harm you : STRONGER and BETTER you in the future. When you decide to be kind rather than fight a useless battle to defend your position : STRONGER and BETTER you in the future. When you decide to rise early and meditate or think about your life : there is a BETTER you, a STRONGER you, ready for the future. When you decide to keep going despite setbacks : STRONGER and BETTER you in the future. When you decide to write down every day what you are grateful for rather than complain about what's not there : a STRONGER and BETTER you in the future. Every decision and every action matters, ever one of them has a consequence in YOUR future. Both ways, good and bad. So yes this "one time" matters. And this "one time" is every time, at each second of your life. You can decide right now, while reading this, that your life will change forever. At this very second and even if everything in the world is against you, you can decide to flip the script. Whatever you want in life you can have it IF you only focus on it, if you stop complaining about the current situation, if you leave toxic people around you who drag you to the bottom, and if you see barriers as steps you need to take to grow to where you wanna go. Don't be hateful about society or people who put you down, for the most part they don't understand the power of every decision. Maybe you were like them before reading this, maybe you also drag people without realizing it in the past. Maybe you mocked someone for his appearance or his clothes, maybe you made someone doubting about himself or his dreams, Maybe you told to your son or your mom "Don't do it, it's not for you." or "You can afford that, you'll be in trouble later" Or maybe you are just not the most positive, motivated and supportive person, you are a complainer or a whiner, you see only problems and never look after solutions, ... We are gamblers on Stake & Primedice so to be more specific on it : every time you beg, you send to yourself a negative message ("you need the help of others because you can't even provide few cents/dollars to play") every time you scam, you drag you down and spread negativity/suspiciousness not only about you but also about the website, the crypto and the gambling communities, ... you bring people down. maybe by scamming someone for only 10k sats you will prevent this person to hit big, and maybe that amount could have been used for some good things in the world (feed a family, help to pay some bills, buy a car that will help the person to find a job which will make him/her feed his childs, ...) every time you lie about your balance because you don't wanna send to someone, every time you lie about yourself (playing a girl when you are a boy, ...) you diminish your self-esteem, you are playing roles and that's some time you steal from your own life. Every those little things bring you (and your relatives) down. Just a little, so little by little that most of the people don't even realize it. Now you know ... that you can change it all at every single second of your life. Little by little, after each decision. And yes we are still humans, so your life will probably not change totally in 1 day (but it could) ... that's not a problem. What is important is that day after day after day after day, you'll make more and more good decisions. And I don't say "good decision" as if there was a good universal way of living, I mean good decision for YOU, decisions who will help YOU to achieve what YOU dream about. From now on, you can decide to make conscious decisions, powerful decisions every day. Set a standard and continue to raise it every day of your life. Your positive action will compound on themselves and soon you'll see a totally different person in the mirror. The changes can be that great, you can be that great. And remember, all will start with a single decision.That's what amaze me the most in life.
xtinepink Posted March 23, 2018 #2 Posted March 23, 2018 Sometimes you are test by your strenght. Been down too and it’s great to be surrounded by positive people and keeps you motivated. One thing I have learned also is that you really have to trust yourself more than anything else. I always have this “okay I am done” but if I want to be better in life then I know the road will be endless, it’s only people who stops the battle.
Lillyflow Posted July 9, 2018 #3 Posted July 9, 2018 Great philosophical mind spill here. I like to think of the immediate affect I have on those I interact with. Now if I am kind, when everyone is rude to a specific person... maybe the one act of kindness will counteract all the angry people .. and add a “happy ripple” will radiate through time and space. I mean... why not? ❤️✨
Preeth Posted August 30, 2018 #4 Posted August 30, 2018 Sometimes it is very difficult to get out of the thoughts that we phase in life and not only one but everybody does it. If that is what we are going through we will never realize that it happens to everybody not only us and we will not realize that at that time. Situations and thoughts that we carry everytime make our mood and things worse in which people start playing a blame game. Blame the other for every bad happened to you, blame the other for every sorrow you had in life, instead of they will not think about stepping ahead and taking responsibility of happened and what they can change. There is still more to learn in life, not just the humanity I feel!
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