picosman Posted January 14, 2019 #1 Posted January 14, 2019 just want to know your thoughts about my situation, and i guess, other have same problem too, wife dont want you gambling, im a gambler since is was i child and now that i have a wife i still gamble whenever i have extra money, my wife dont understand me and dont want to understand me, i told he that im not losing , i win more than i lose, but still she dont want me gambling, this is a picture of my situation, my wife keeps on nagging on me whenever i gamble, then my wife get enough of me she decided to cheat on me, we fight a lot during that time, even i win alot, still im not happy i ended up like this, i hurt my wife physically, and emotional , bcoz she is cheating on me, i almost go to jail becoz of that, we decide to talk , to figure out what we need to do, i didnt stop gambling, she stop nagging on me, and give me time to gamble, she realize that she love me, and stop cheating on me, now, we are happy, i win alot, much more now that she is not mad that im gambling, i alway but her thing she want whenever i win , im keeping enough money for us not to struggle before salary comes, i dunno what happen but after all our fights and misunderstanding, she finally become better and we no longer fight now, i give also give her some of my time so that she will feel that i still love her , i only gamble for like 4hrs a day, then rest of the day is for her, this is my story, a real life story of a gambler able to win the game of life, im so happy now
lodaya27 Posted January 14, 2019 #3 Posted January 14, 2019 I don't have a wife yet, maybe if I'm married I will put my wife and family first
miconacua Posted January 14, 2019 #4 Posted January 14, 2019 loll then congrats to you dude, you finally figure out the secret on how you will calm down your wife, haha
Computer Posted January 14, 2019 #5 Posted January 14, 2019 thanks God i have no wife yet but have family members
miconacua Posted January 14, 2019 #6 Posted January 14, 2019 1 minute ago, Computer said: thanks God i have no wife yet but have family members congrats too !! @computer hahah, you better stay that way!! im warning you!! hahha
Computer Posted January 14, 2019 #7 Posted January 14, 2019 3 minutes ago, miconacua said: congrats too !! @computer hahah, you better stay that way!! im warning you!! hahha do u have wife?but when i marry or i live forever without wife ?share experience plz
williamshennie9 Posted January 14, 2019 #8 Posted January 14, 2019 Your posts are spam. Just make one post asking "x" or gambling. For me, of course I would choose my wife over gambling any day
anonnep Posted January 14, 2019 #9 Posted January 14, 2019 just to those who are married lesson lesson = Wife are always correct in argument
davinmark Posted January 14, 2019 #10 Posted January 14, 2019 since i am still 21 years old and didnt have wife i choose gambling
Kate Posted January 14, 2019 #11 Posted January 14, 2019 Since I dont have a family I cant say anything but I am sure you should choose your wife then gambling. I hope you forgive her and take her back in good health and listen to her
eroejoe Posted January 14, 2019 #12 Posted January 14, 2019 If you are winning then do not listen to your wife and buy her something with that money. If you start losing then listen your wife. Nice and simple.
Saripa Mursid Posted January 14, 2019 #13 Posted January 14, 2019 today I prefer to gamble, not because it's more important than my husband but because I'm far away from my family I am happier now in gambling. Choose your wife before gambling and you explain everything to her. all women will understand if you explain this why you need to gamble.
FotisNt Posted January 14, 2019 #14 Posted January 14, 2019 Well, once you'll set a balance between time spending on gambling and time spending with you wife/children/family you can have both. On the other hand there is the money problem, for example if your family doesn't accept you as a gambler, I guess you'll have to make a decision in which you will have to choose what's the one that you want the most while being a gambler can cost you both family and money. Concluding you can have both once you set a balance(Just like me 😃 ).
bmg Posted January 14, 2019 #15 Posted January 14, 2019 Well lucky for me my mann and I gamble together and yes there are still times when we both get frustrated with the whole gambling situation but we have more good times then bad. For anyone that doesn't know bigmann23 is my husband. Anyway good luck to you.
cottonbudd Posted January 15, 2019 #16 Posted January 15, 2019 Family always come first in my mind. I would never forget my family because of gambling
Demarkus89 Posted January 15, 2019 #17 Posted January 15, 2019 I need a family in the first turn but I need my money that I lost!!!
CAPT.DEADPOOL Posted January 15, 2019 #18 Posted January 15, 2019 I think choose your wifi because because many job offer choose your wife because there are so many jobs like a country to earn a lot of money there are still opportunities for you to wait.
williamshennie9 Posted January 15, 2019 #19 Posted January 15, 2019 13 hours ago, bmg said: Well lucky for me my mann and I gamble together and yes there are still times when we both get frustrated with the whole gambling situation but we have more good times then bad. For anyone that doesn't know bigmann23 is my husband. Anyway good luck to you. That's part of the gambling life. Sometimes you are on top of the world, and other times, you are rock bottom. Gambling has it's ups and downs, the key is to enjoy the ups more than the downs
Stevenwonder Posted January 15, 2019 #20 Posted January 15, 2019 The argument can be made that when you do marry your wife, it is the biggest gamble that you’ll ever take. So you’re kind of killing two birds with one stone as far as picking which one. Gambling is tied with my girlfriend though as far as giving me way more depressing moments in contrast to joyous ones. So if I had to choose which one I couldn’t live without, gun to my head, I’d probably pick my girlfriend just because I know she’d be holding that gun.
neich Posted January 16, 2019 #21 Posted January 16, 2019 i dont have a wife... everytime i get cheated. but if i can chose i would say WIFE. totally safe
jualid Posted January 16, 2019 #22 Posted January 16, 2019 On 1/15/2019 at 5:12 AM, bmg said: Well lucky for me my mann and I gamble together and yes there are still times when we both get frustrated with the whole gambling situation but we have more good times then bad. For anyone that doesn't know bigmann23 is my husband. Anyway good luck to you. So both of you are gambler? Wow, how about the money things for gambling? Both of you control it or only you?
kg562 Posted January 16, 2019 #23 Posted January 16, 2019 For most relationships an arguement usually creates better understanding for each other. Her not wanting to understand you was more likely she just didn’t like the gambling part. As most of the time gambling causes more lost then gains and she was just trying to avoid the lost from gambling. Glad you were able to have her understand you as your saying your winning more then losing which means she has faith and trust you don’t bankrupt yourself. Besides that if you wanted to, get her into gambling but I wouldn’t recommended it lol.
wehavethesalad Posted January 16, 2019 #24 Posted January 16, 2019 ofcurse my wife haha. there is no way for gambling to win
KiXxnTRiXx Posted January 17, 2019 #25 Posted January 17, 2019 ujmm,, wtf,., lol., thats a very personal question., but honestly....wow.. if youre wife is important to you, then theres really no questions which.. gambling is not worth losing anyone you love for...
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