Your wife or gambling?

[Thepug]

Always put family before money. No more comments are needed...

[nattekut]

I have a good wife that also likes to gamble from time to time. She does not care if I sometimes am hours behind my screen to gamble, play poker or to place sport bets. The only thing she wants is that I put as much time that I spent gambling to please her. 

[Tman101]

Get youre wife hooked on gambling 2 its a win win

[nuuuitsjdragon]

Can I have an option for both?

Hahaha greed aside, probably wife - then ask her if I can gamble on the sidelines. 

It’s a no-brainier! Why choose gambling when we are not even bound to win... then again if you end up with a divorce that’s a big loss as well, guess you just can’t win. 

[polor12]

i would go with wife always.. any family., over gambling,, but in a way you look at in a different angle,, both do make me happy,, both can disappoint me at times. both are some what stress reliever.. i do spend good amount of money on both,.. hmmm.. pretty much they both are the same to me.. am i married to gambling???

[davinmark]

i dont have a wife yet, because i am still 22 Years old  but i think. if i already married. i am going to choose my wife rather than gambling

[Moon]

In some cases will be: Your husband or gamble?  ))

[togiy]

well every normal person should give the same answer "family comes first"

because these are different things, family is a must while gambling is a choice .. gambling is only for fun while family is for life .. 

never lose controll and don't upset your loved ones..

[nattekut]

why not combining both. I had hot steaming sex with my wife while my phone or desktop was autorunning on stake. This turned out good a couple times. I remember once after having fun with my wife I took a look at my laptop I noticed I hit a 42k multiplier with the hilo bot and scooped a 0.07BTC win. So it was some double fun after all. But well after that I busted the balance next day.... but at least I had some fun again with the wife 🤣

[Kingcashedout]

I can relate to ur situation ....i been there ......but theres gotta be double standards my wife naggs about everything though she didnt want me selling drugs so i stopped then i started. Gambling to stay away from women n the party life now she nagging about my gambling ..so i stop going to casinos and start running working out n going to gym now she nagging that im looking to good n theres women at the gym so she dont want me running or going to the gym.....women are never happy 

[Noctua]

married set up a different account. put play money there. Done. As far as time in front of the screen. Well you have to have balance. I balance like this on bad weather days i'm infront of the screen. On good days well i'm gone. When you have a good chunk of change in the "play account" take a vacation. 

 

 

[CntryBoy]

I'm not married and never have been, so I have no first hand experience with this.  But I must agree with some others that family should always be #1 and the most important thing.  If she's not happy, chances are you won't be happy either.

[FotisNt]

What a touching story you got there man. Well Im happy that you and your wife are still okay at the end. Obviously your wife needs your time man, thats one factor for family and relationship and your trust and understanding to each other

[Aazzah]

Yeah I can imagine it... I don't have a wife at the moment but my family don't agree with me gambling. they see it as a bad habbit. Which is true but also at the same time, There is a lot of bad habbits. Worse than gambling, In my eyes I see it as a hobby, something to do in your spare time and also something you can enjoy.

[j240]

Hmmm i'ma choose my wife Cow hahaha , gambling would be just a past time for me . Never ever choose gambling over your family or wife. gambling will not be there for you in times of sorrow , i have many ex-friends that choose gambling over their family , many had millions , due to gambling they lost everything , i also had friends that killed themselves they couldnt come back up because of debts , i was also a professional gambler before , lucky for me i won first then the winnings are the ones i bet , i swear even though you have rational thinking you cannot escape the seduction and power of gambling , look at me i work in an urban place with no casino's and because of internet i discovered stake. I depo seldom at Stake but not as much 1% of my income i only do small depo for fun , . Control yourselves guys , gambling addiction can destroy your life.

[Etude]

Well if you were to let gambling take over the importance your wife, that clearly comes to show what your priority is in life. That being said though, everyone has their own right to live their life as how they see fit but certain actions and decisions badly made can lead to catastrophic effects in terms of relationships and financial.

[Gess069]

Well, I have a girlfriend but I never spoke with her for gambling, I think it’s time to tell her and I know she will understand me because I never play with all my money I have, I’m not addicted and I deposit like 5-10% of my salary that’s all. Family comes first, my family knows now that I gamble here and they understood me there’s no problem for them. For the addicted players here and in real life casinos I can’t say anything only just family comes first and they should respect them and their opinions.

[Mateusz]

Meh those wifes, always gets on good people's ambitious... 

[Jenn09]

just a lame question you know?  Why you need to choose between wife and gambling?  Wife is much more important , family is much more important above all because you done gambling for taking a risk to have abundant money for your family or wife or children maybe.. You didn't want your wife as well to choose bet you and other things ? RIGHT?

[Excuit]

On 1/14/2019 at 6:11 PM, picosman said:

just want to know your thoughts about my situation, and i guess, other have same problem too, wife dont want you gambling, im a gambler since is was i child and now that i have a wife i still gamble whenever i  have extra money, my wife dont understand me and dont want to understand me, i told he that im not losing , i win more than i lose, but still she dont want me gambling, 

this is a picture of my situation, my wife keeps on nagging on me whenever i gamble, 

then my wife get enough of me she decided to cheat on me, we fight a lot during that time, even i win alot, still im not happy

 

 

i ended up like this, i hurt my wife physically, and emotional , bcoz she is cheating on me, i almost go to jail becoz of that, 

we decide to talk , to figure out what we need to do, i didnt stop gambling, she stop nagging on me, and give me time to gamble, 

she realize that she love me, and stop cheating on me, now, we are happy, i win alot, much more now that she is not mad that im gambling, 

i alway but her thing she want whenever i win , im keeping enough money for us not to struggle before salary comes, 

i dunno what happen but after all our fights and misunderstanding, she finally become better and we no longer fight now, i give also give her some of my time 

so that she will feel that i still love her , i only gamble for like 4hrs a day, then rest of the day is for her, 

this is my story, a real life story of a gambler able to win the game of life, im so happy now

 

I had a similar situation. I'm a gambler and the girl isn't. She very often scolded me about games. Undoubtedly, I won and lost. But gambling is part of my life. We fought a lot, made up, but agreed to one that we are too different. Now I have found a girl who is neutral about my games. Sometimes we even play together)

[nikowin88]

Well first I want to congratulate you for your sincerity. I mean sharing this very personal story with us is uncommon and brave to me. Not sure I would be able or wanting to do so. 

But ofc I had dispute with the wife about gambling. Mostly about the time spent that make her mad after me. Now it's cool bc she leave me when I need or want to be quiet for gambling and on the other I try as much as I can to not spent to many times to gambling and dedicate more time to my wife and kids than to gamble. 

And that is for the greater good as the more time spent gambling the more likely I hit a red streak. While if I just play short sessions I get some profits. 

Thanks for sharing with us and good luck with your games ;+) 

And finally ofc I choose my family over the gambling after all. But the better is not choosing and succeeding in making the both work together well

[qach]

Gambling>wife

[Enzo]

This doesn't sound like a story in which you won. You seemed to have barely scooted by a major legal issue as well as losing your wife. You may want to re-evaluate how much you gamble.

That being said. Wife/family over gambling. Always. If you can't make that distinction you have a severe problem and need to seek help as your problem is likely to began affecting those around you sooner rather then later. Gambling is all fun and games until you ruin your life/someone else's life over it.

[FotisNt]

On 3/16/2019 at 8:06 PM, trader said:

i am still single. if i had wife, my choose would be her 100% 

Sorry for that man, but you still! should choose Wife and Family, they are first, they will treat you all good, but gambling :(, Sorry man. But still Wife and Family is the number one.

[Danifilth]

For example, you need a little bit of her guys come, pick up the apartment. or something like that, you need stress. or use other methods of exposure