Biggest regrets in life

[skywallkee]

I'm actually going to be the "exception" for this challenge. So far, I haven't had any kind of regrets of any kind. The reason for that is I am always doing what I feel is the best at that exact moment. I'd say it's pointless having regrets when you're living this way. Regrets might come when there is something that you should definitely do and is absolutely obvious, but you aren't doing for some reason.

Well, I choose to not have regrets, not get mad and live happily. As some of my colleagues use to say, "I've got no idea how you can keep being so positive after so much shit going on". And it's true, even if something bothers me, I've got this "skill" for which I am actually proud of, and that is the ability to keep being positive and not let myself to be affected by what happens around me. Of course, I have my limits, but I'd say that if someone manages to make me angry/sad, then that person is a walking devil.

Might say that I might regret it somehow that I wasted a few years in a really toxic relationship with a girl that definitely took advantage of me, but I also don't regret it as again, at that moment I felt good thinking I've got someone besides me that loves me and I can count on, reason why I'm looking forward as opportunities much better can come, past experiences allowing me to "filter" better from now on.

I wish everyone here can go over their regrets and understand that life really goes on and much better is yet to come.

[Hill20]

My biggest regrade is i fucked up my aunty's doughtier and then she was pregnent...i thought i did a big mistake and yah its really a big  regrade for me       

[Raikage]

8 hours ago, Nevena said:

Oh dear... So sorry to hear that  Glad that she is okay now, and she will be, don't worry. You never know what it's like until you feel it on your skin. The most important thing is that she is alive and now healthy.

Yes! She hasn't speak much yet but understand..but she will

I'm still glad that God has given her to me..

God has a plan and im just a tool to make things better.

She's still my most precious gift 

[Viksen]

I am very sorry that I did not work for a long time. I have 7 children. I brought them up.. but now I understand that I also had to work. Just leave the house, talk with people, get a little money, but still feel alive. I really love children, but they grow up, but I feel like a housekeeper. I’m a creative person. I love to paint, model, decorate the house. This could be my profession. The truth is I made artificial flowers from foamiran and sold them, there was a little moneymaker. But I am sorry to give my flowers to someone. Now I am finishing a beauty academy. I am getting a diploma of a hairdresser and makeup artist. I like to create holiday hairstyles, I can fully prepare the bride for the wedding. I am going to open my own beauty salon. So I'm already in anticipation.

[Hill20]

Most of us place way too much importance on what other people around us think about us.  How will they judge us?  In the moment, we think their opinions are crucial to our future success and happiness.  On our death beds, none of that matters..

[Tanisha2018]

Biggest Regret: I lied to my gf that she looks hot 😀

[luciz]

I think the biggest regret I've had in life was that I had a crush on this one girl...

She was very special to me, like, VERY, so young me had super bad self confidence and neeeeeever ever thought that she would EVER like me back.

So I put my feelings hidden for a long long time, but then something happend.

She approached me in the local swimming pool area (like an inside swimming pool i dont remember english word), and she tried to talk to me, I was super scared to talk back, I just  stood like a creep and stared, haha.

Years later I've found out she had feelings for me, but I was scared to admit mine to her, maybe she was too? No idea, but I still remember this as by biggest regret, to not open up to her.

[Bossman92h]

My biggest regret has to involve gambling, 

I went through a stage of gambling we’re I was hiding it from my girlfriend and not being able to talk to her at all about it because she doesn’t like gambling. Anyway I had a downward spiral I couldn’t control myself being in live casino’s. I turned £700 in to £9500 in live Blackjack & turned numerous hundred’s of £‘s into thousands. I always thought I was at the start of a big win and gambled further to lose everything. I ended up loaning £15,000  & losing this & losing more than I could afford and got loans to cover up my losses but as my greed and addiction got more I ended up gambling the loans too, which led to my falling into a pit of misery and depression and unbelievable amounts of stress treating my girlfriend bad not being the normal fun loving person I am. I eventually came clean and asked for help we spoke and sorting things out and from the support of my girlfriend we got control of my addiction and  CompromiseD to limiting what I can deposit, anyway long story short since I have came clean and not hid anything from my girlfriend £400 worth of deposits have ended up into £2500 withdrawals. So what I’m trying to say is i regret not opening up about my numerous big wins.

I wouldn’t of been depressed or stressed and have more money to spend on my house and family trips.
 

moral of the story don’t hide things from your partners if they truly love you they will stick around and help you.  

[Caterpillar40]

well if talking regrets so i am myself a big regret for me, and if i was not me then for sure wanted to be me . lolz food for taught. 

i always wanted to fly like birds having wings may this come true one day (butterfly)

[Virmel]

The most regretfull I have done is when I left my High School bestfriend in a bar drinking with someone she just met over social media. she got raped that night and now shes living a life like a prostitute. I really regret it coz I feel like I did that to her. I should have not left her there alone. :( if only I could turn back the hands of time, I would choose that day and I will take her home with me. 

[Freddyzone7]

My biggest regret was not travel and see the world more before I settled down. It is great to be mature and responsible but living a care free life without many responsibilities was great for me for a short while. Looking back another year or two would have been great, unfortunately not enough funds or money was available so the grind of work took hold.  Grow up they said, in some ways I will never.

[jamesbond]

My biggest regret was that I came to know about BTC when it was around $450 per BTC and I see the scope in it to, wants to buy some good amounts for me, but due to my bad financial situation at that time was not able to even save what BTC I had and have to sell them due to family needs.  If I had those BTC with me right now, I might have been having a different life where all my debts should have been cleared and I will be having a dream life which I want to have. 

[rajapalak]

I feel very much regret to have married someone I didn't love. But to leave that person I felt very guilty. Because she was so kind to me.   Maybe I should learn to love it , even though it feels very difficult  . 

[sha4ravi]

Biggest regrade in my life is loosing games in stake even i know i can cashout

[Adrenalin83]

 

My biggest disappointment in life is that I did not buy 1000 bitcoins at the price of $ 5.12 in 2012. Straight tears come in.

[m42z3c]

as i got into my early teenage years i began to fall ill of mind. i developed depression and other mental disorders. i let these issues get in the way of my normal everyday life, leading me to quit school and abandon my social relationships. now at 28 i have no more than a 10th grade education and have no true friends to speak of .  i regret that i let these things get in the way as much as they did and needless to say i still do. i would like nothing more than to overcome these obstacles and lead a normal life.

[pgdn]

On 7/12/2020 at 3:02 PM, Viksen said:

I am very sorry that I did not work for a long time. I have 7 children. I brought them up.. but now I understand that I also had to work. Just leave the house, talk with people, get a little money, but still feel alive. I really love children, but they grow up, but I feel like a housekeeper. I’m a creative person. I love to paint, model, decorate the house. This could be my profession. The truth is I made artificial flowers from foamiran and sold them, there was a little moneymaker. But I am sorry to give my flowers to someone. Now I am finishing a beauty academy. I am getting a diploma of a hairdresser and makeup artist. I like to create holiday hairstyles, I can fully prepare the bride for the wedding. I am going to open my own beauty salon. So I'm already in anticipation.

Its never late to change your life. i know many ppl like you that regret about the same and they try to change something. You are strong woman and you can do it

[yololife222]

My biggest regret is that there was this wrlly beatiful girl at the bar and i wanted to aproach here but i was too scared and thought that such a beatiful girl wouldnt wanna talk to me.

I prob looked like a creep that night....

Im still thinking about her, and regret that I didnt aprouch her.